Although knowing exactly what attractive women do to make themselves so darn memorable right off the bat won’t necessarily make the next one you go on any less stressful, it could help you to know exactly what they do to make themselves so darn memorable right off the bat.
Men on Reddit chat about these things all the time, and when someone goes to the AskMen forum to find out what men really think about something, a slew of guys are more than willing to explain everything their fellow “redditors” want to know in great detail.
In one recent thread, a woman asked, “What is the most attractive thing a woman can do on the first date?”
Read on to learn about these 10 things men say the most attractive women do during an amazing first date!
1. They put away their phone.
“Had a first date last night. Neither one of us looked at our phones the whole time until we looked around and realized they were cleaning up the restaurant. Three hours passed fast with zero phone interruptions.” Lexis, 29
2. They get physical.
“The best way to show clear interest is to be a little handsy. If you’re interested, touch your date. Breaking the touch barrier and initiating some physical contact, even just a little, increases the intimacy of the date. If you’re attracted to him, this is a green light that you’re interested.” Olive, 33
3. They give meaningful looks.
“Look back just before disappearing from view at the end. Like, lets say you are getting into a cab. Just before you close the door, you stand up again, look over the door for one last glance, then get in and ride away.” ELI, 25
4. They have good manners.
“I’ve had a few that have turned up late but I’ve always had a text update with an apology. Sometimes unavoidable in London when you don’t live/work in the same area but as long as you let me know and are polite about it I really don’t mind.” KLEIS, 30
5. They take initiative.
“On one of the best dates I’ve ever had, the woman kissed me as soon as I opened the door and we’d introduced ourselves, to take the pressure off me worrying about a first kiss at the end of the night. I loved it.” PETER, 37
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6. They mention a second date.
“After the date/in the end of it, show that you want to do it again. There’s nothing more amazing (at least for me) then a woman who’s confident enough to show that she liked you and it’s eager to go after you.” Richy, 28
7. They’re human.
“Really just be a normal human being that has a solid sense of humor.” Frank, 39
8. They take the lead.
“To me, the most attractive thing a woman can do at any time, including on the first date, is take charge. Lead, be assertive, take initiative.” Dean, 30
9. They actively participate.
“Active participation in initiating and holding the conversation. It’s a two way street.” Gerrard, 28
10. They check-in.
“Say to me, ‘Let me know when you get home safe.’ Pretty much guarantees a second date. I know she’s a good girl and was raised right.” LUCAS, 33
The next time you’re getting ready to go out on a big and exciting first date, keep in mind that men care just as much as you do, and in many cases they are just as worried as you are about making a positive first impression!