How to Spend Your Valentine’s Day Alone:For single men and women
Valentine’s Day is around the corner and no doubt we are living in the season of love with lots of people raving about it and rightly so because love should be celebrated. One can’t help the emotional highs and the feelings of butterflies floating in your belly as we gaze into our partner’s eyes on valentine’s day, with whispers of sweet nothings in our ears.
As beautiful as love is and can be, some persons will no doubt be without a romantic love partner at this time and some may just be feeling some kind of way about it. The feeling of not having someone to call you, take you out for dinner, buy you gifts or just spend time with can be a little depressing and emotionally draining, but it doesn’t really have to be like that this time for you.
Valentine’s day is known to be a day where we choose to celebrate love and by extension of that, we celebrate those who are objects of our affection and show acts of kindness around us. Sadly, a lot of persons have made it into just a day couples show love to themselves and no one else.
Valentine’s day is a day where you can decide to celebrate the loves you have in your life and the love you have for yourself. Being alone on Valentine’s day may not be your preference or choice but being lonely on this day is entirely your choice and I’m not talking about going to casually hook up with a dude or gal (except that’s what you want to do…). So let’s say you find yourself alone on Valentine’s day, how will you make this day memorable for you that it becomes one of the best days of your days this year? How do you ensure you don’t go down the rabbit hole of comparison, depression, outright sadness? Read on…
Love can be celebrated with or without a romantic partner and can be as equally rewarding. First, it begins with you recognizing that you are your own object of affection and treating yourself as so. Playing the victim game and feeling sorry for yourself puts you at a disservice to your own self. Recognize that this is a season of your life and wouldn’t last forever, however, the seeds you sow in this season of your life and the efforts you channel into yourself in making yourself a better person will have lasting results even when you get to be with the love of your life.
So first things first, get yourself to be in the right frame of mind by having the right perspective to what love and life is and should be for you. You can decide to take yourself out for a treat and reward yourself for every milestone you have achieved. Remember, you are your own object of affection. You can as well decide to go out with some of your friends who are single and enjoy drinks and conversations. Another way you could spend your Valentine’s day is by choosing to celebrate with those who are not just remembered all the time within your community, I’m talking about the aged, physically challenged and orphans. You can choose to be an extension of love to them in the season rather than feel sorry and dejected for yourself.
One thing to remember is that Valentine’s day is just a day and you have the rest of your life ahead of you to be in love with a partner who is worthy of you. Much love.
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